🗝️確認したい単語🤫
pretty good : まあまあいい
give away : バラす
grave : 墓
intuition : 直感
distressing : 心を傷ませるような
vary from culture to culture : 文化によって異なる
Psychological studies are uncovering a more positive side to secrets, suggesting that keeping good news to yourself can actually make you feel more alive, especially if you plan to share your secret with someone later. Secrets have positive things and negative things. Negative secrets hurt people and damage relationships. They're like a guilty pleasure, an activity you really enjoy doing, but which also gives you a feeling of guilt or shame for doing it. On the other hand, positive secrets give us the feeling we are in control of our emotions, and they energize us. For example, it's marriage proposals. But we have to treat positive secrets in other cultures and countries. In some cultures, we have this intuition that pregnancy and secrets around pregnancy in earlier periods, that it look more like a worrying, troublesome or distressing secret. And when it's later the secret, people feel comfortable discussing it more like positive secrets. So it seems to be vary from culture to culture.
